Birula, living in Bihar, India, was all smiles about her sterilization. Photo: David J. Olson |
WALLAH, Pakistan and ARA, India -- Last
month, I met Sumeera, 26, in a Dhanak
clinic (“dhanak” means rainbow in Urdu) in the village of Wallah, in the rural Punjab
of Pakistan. She and her husband have four children ages 7, 5, 3 and 1, and have
agreed that four is enough. She had come for a pregnancy test and to secure a
contraceptive method to keep her family from getting bigger. Her pregnancy test
was negative, and she went away happily, with an intrauterine device inserted
by her Dhanak midwife and clinic
owner Kaneez Fatima. “Before we found Dhanak,
my husband and I knew about family planning but did not have access to it,”
Sumeera told me. “Dhanak made a big
change in my life.”
One
thousand four hundred kilometers to the southeast and a week later, I met
Birula, 25, in a Surya clinic (“surya”
is the Hindi word for sun) in Ara, a rural town about two hours outside of
Patna, India, the capital of Bihar state. She has three children ages 7, 6 and
1½. The previous week she had been sterilized at this clinic; she was back to
have her stitches removed. Her relief was palpable – she couldn’t stop smiling.
Sumeera
and Birula come from different cultures in different countries but the problems
they face are remarkably similar – too many children and too little ability to
control the size of their. In India, women cannot always determine the size of
their families because of a strong preference for the male child and male
dominance in decision-making. In Pakistan, religion also plays an influential
role. Both countries are confronting the problem, albeit in different ways and
with varying degrees of success.